How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 08:48
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Would you let your partner cheat on you every now and again?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Procrastinates a lot.
Are there any guys, crossdressers, or transgender girls here who wear tampons?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What I need from you?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What should a young woman do to control sagging breasts?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Do most narcissists have good intentions as long as you are under their control?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
That's it for today.
Does meth make women super horny like it does men?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Can you name a female actress who has had bad timing or luck in her film career?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
How do you deal with neighbors who are always telling you what to do?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Have you ever had a bad gut feeling about someone and it was right?
Making more friends is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Does not procrastinate.
Which Shakespeare words have completely changed meaning in modern English?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Ask yourself:
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.